Should I Tell Him/Her I Don't Like Them

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There comes a time when we just don't feel the same for the person we once use to love. Were we have to ask our self do we tell them how we feel or hide it from them? Should I tell him/her how I am feeling?

The answer is always yes! Communication is a very important thing in any relationship especially when feeling like this arise. It is important to inform your partner that you may not feel the same way you use to about them. See in your mind I know what you are thinking. Well he/she is such a sweet person they treat me good and I don't want to hurt them. Think about it this way if you stay with a person you don't like do you think you can keep up the act forever? No one way or another it will seep through. Then how do you think they will feel, when they find out that the person they have dedicated so much time to given all there love to doesn't feel the same way. They will be devastated much more than they would if you would have told them sooner.

There is no way to avoid hurting that person. I'm sorry to say, but telling them sooner will avoid them becoming more attached to you then they would in the first place. It will also give them more time to heal and get back in the game. But if they really care about you some people will want to fight for you and your love. And if you still feel like not letting them go in hopes your feelings will grow it's also a good chance to see if they can step up their game and win back what was lost. In other words give them a fighting chance. How can you fix something if you didn't know it malfunctioning. It will give them a chance to think, do I want to stay and fight or move on. Which is fair to you and him. 

If you truly don't like or love someone. You never will. Love is something so beautiful, common yet rare. It can not be force, you either feel it or you don't. Kind of like music, you know when you like it and when you don't . If you like country and someone plays you a rap song no matter how much you listen to it you will not like it. Love should flow through you and if it doesn't it's not right. Always do what right for you, because in the end it's what's best for both parties. So think carefully and do what your heart tells you.