Mean Girls

Mean Girls film

Every one at least once in there life have experience another girl or girls who don't like you from the moment you meat them. They roll their eyes when you speak. They ignore you when you speak and even go as far a purposely mocking what you say or wear. Why is that? Why do these complete strangers not like you? Is it you? What can you do to deal with it?

I understand that guys have gone through this as well, but in this situation it was a female friend who asked me about it. Here is what happen to her. She told me how she was invited to a party by one of her friends who she was close to. She didn't want to disappoint her friend. So she went even though she did not know anyone else but her friend and she didn't even feel comfortable with crowds of people she didn't know since she would have no one to talk to.

She went to the party with an open mind. She arrive the the party and everything was ok she didn't talk to people but no one was bothering her. It all went south when her friends introduced her to a couple of her own friends. She notice that they not like her from the start, they were distant did everything possible to keep her out of the loop. Pretty much ignored her. As the night went on they met with some guys and they made fun of her about some of the stuff she had told them to try to make them laugh (they didn't) but when they told the guys it was the funniest thing in the world. She felt confused, is it something that she said or did?

Well the answer is no, she did nothing wrong. Did I forget to mention my friend is very attracted? If so well now I said it. The reason these girls did not like my friend from the start because they felt threaten by her. They saw that she was attracted and didn't take the time to get to know her. See when a girl feels threat by another girl they will do everything in there power to let them know who is the alpha female. They will say comments with a little insult undertone, try to ignore you and keep you out of the loop if in a group or just openly mock you. The thing to know in this situation it's not your fault. You did nothing wrong. The problem lies in their insecurities.

What should you do? The answer is nothing. Be your self. Ignore them back, you don't need anyone's approval but your own. If they don't like you well they are missing out. But the most important thing to do is to get away from them. You do not want to be around girl or people in general who think or act like that. If you aren't enjoying your self leave. Why put your self through that. Never force your self to stay because you don't want to look bad. If you are with a friend they will understand. Means girls will be mean it you who decides if you take it.